Silk panties, soft pantyhose, bright red lipstick, the feel of your feet in heels, all of these evoke an erotic response for you.  But how much of a response? Is it merely the feel of these items on you or the way you feel while wearing them? Or is it when you put them on you never want to take them off?

It may be a tough decision, or it may be one that you need to really think about.  Let me help you.

You know your dick gets hard when you put on a pair of panties or even the thought of putting on a pair of panties, but that’s all you like.  Panties are your only fetish when it comes to women’s clothing.  That means it’s just a fetish for you and you probably shouldn’t consider any lifestyle changes.

You get excited by the thought of being forced to dress up like a girl and suck a dick. You like the humiliation of all of it, but just the thought of it, but not necessarily actually doing it, or doing it, but once you have an orgasm, you’re no longer interested.  That means it’s just a fetish for you.

You walk by a women’s department store in Montreal and want to walk in and buy everything on the racks.  Or you walk by a woman with a sexy outfit and want the same thing in your size.  That means you are either a lifestyle crossdresser or want to be.

The real key to analyzing yourself is to ask yourself if you just get hard when you think about or wear feminine things or if you crave wearing them all the time because of your truly love for them.

If it’s the first, then it’s just a fetish for you.  If it’s the second, then it’s the lifestyle that you want.

So now you’ve decided which you are.  Let’s start with fetish crossdressing and expand your imagination.  If you like wearing panties, try silk or satin ones over mesh or lacy.  Also think about looking into pantyhose or stockings, because the nylon material will feel amazing over your dick.  If while wearing panties you like to think about dick, try on some lipstick, preferably red or hot pink.  This way, why you’re rubbing your dick (or what I would call a sissy clit), you can feel the lipstick on your lips and know that if you were sucking a dick, your lips would look so sexy on his member covered in lipstick.

I guarantee you will love the feel of anything silky on your sissy clit.  Even if you rub your legs together, the feel of the nylon material feels amazing.  It will make you feel more girlie and humiliated then ever before.

Now let’s move to lifestyle.  I think you know what you need to do.  You need to give in, to buy the clothing that you desire, to dress in the privacy of your own home until you get comfortable enough to try going outside.  When you do, I would suggest trying to be as passable as possible, this way you feel comfortable with people seeing you all dressed up.  However, if you like the humiliation of it, then go out however you’d like.  Also, try going to a gay bar or bar that has other crossdressers going to it, someplace you will feel most comfortable.

If you want to start out slower, then try getting rid of all your male underwear.  Replace them all with feminine underwear and lingerie.  Also try sleeping in sexy lingerie every night as well, and try practicing putting on make up.  Play with it every day, a little more every time and you will soon feel right at home wearing women’s outfits all the time.

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